As moms, I often think people don't see all of the little things we do that seem insignificant but consume our minds. Let's be honest, and this is in no way bashing dads because I know every family is different - but for the most part, moms carry the weight of making sure everything is done for the kids.
I'm 62, and I still have nightmares about packing the kid's lunches and getting them out to the bus on time. I think it comes from this feeling, even to this day, of always being behind and trying to catch up. I still feel I am running behind everyone else, and just as I catch up, they have been standing there resting and chatting at the top of the hill, and I arrive out of breath, and they then continue on their way. I don't get to stop and rest, and look around and be part of the happy moments - until I throw a fit! :-) But, we shouldn't have to throw a fit!
I can so relate. My only child just turned 18. I have always felt like I wasn’t “getting it right”. Then I saw his response to the question in the football program this fall - “what person has impacted you the most” - he chose me, as the one who has always had his back and challenged him to be his best. (I think his dad’s feelings were a little hurt…) The important things are what will be remembered at the end of the day, not the forgotten snack or the time you were late to pickup.
I'm 62, and I still have nightmares about packing the kid's lunches and getting them out to the bus on time. I think it comes from this feeling, even to this day, of always being behind and trying to catch up. I still feel I am running behind everyone else, and just as I catch up, they have been standing there resting and chatting at the top of the hill, and I arrive out of breath, and they then continue on their way. I don't get to stop and rest, and look around and be part of the happy moments - until I throw a fit! :-) But, we shouldn't have to throw a fit!
I can so relate. My only child just turned 18. I have always felt like I wasn’t “getting it right”. Then I saw his response to the question in the football program this fall - “what person has impacted you the most” - he chose me, as the one who has always had his back and challenged him to be his best. (I think his dad’s feelings were a little hurt…) The important things are what will be remembered at the end of the day, not the forgotten snack or the time you were late to pickup.